Nicholas Sarkozy's Divorce

An expected divorce of the French President Nicholas Sarkozy and his wife Cecilia (2nd marriage for both) has recently been announced. The conservative politician Nicholas has Virgo Ascendant with Mars placed in the 7th house (house of marriage) indicating more than one relationship and disputes in married life. Adding to this, the Lord of 7th house Jupiter is placed with debilitated Ketu deteriorating the problems further. There is no wonder in his separation and divorce in both the marriages.

In Cecilia's case, the Lord of 7th house Saturn is placed in the 5th house without any severe affliction but Mars is placed in the 4th house with Rahu and it is aspecting the 7th house indicating terrible confrontation in married life. Nicolas is currently under the influence of Sun-Venus-Saturn period. Cecilia is currently under the influence of Venus-Moon-Saturn period. Saturnine influences in relationships have major obstacles and Saturn's cold hand descend the relationship.

The composite charts Sun conjunct Venus signifies true love. So, there was also a good deal of affection and a spirit of adventure between them in the good times. But Cecilia has Sun in Scorpio and Nicholas has in Aquarius. They often live apart even when they are together. Note that Nicholas's Saturn is in conjunction with Cecilia's Sun marking a difference in social status, age and distance in general. From the very beginning, Cecilia Sarkozy refused to be just 'Nicolas' wife'.

Upheavals and family changes were on the cards.

We wish the couple all the luck for their future endeavors.

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We Can't Afford The House And A Divorce - The Impact Of The Housing Crisis On Separation

Its becoming a sadly familiar scenario. A couple can barely pay the mortgage and expenses every month with their joint incomes. Divorce is on the horizon. The parties want to separate but cannot afford to live apart. What is there to do?

Unfortunately, there is no magic solution. Neither judges nor lawyers can make a house sell or create more money than that which exists. We can only deal with what is there. Mortgages and expenses must be paid. And, if there isn't enough money to go around, those who desire to separate may have to continue living together. Needless to say, this is far easier said than done. The stresses which may have caused the parties to split up are now keeping them under the same roof. The tension, which has already escalated reaches an all time high and there is no immediate out.

But this doesn't mean that the situation must escalate into a scene from "War of the Roses". Here are a couple of ground rules which can, and should be followed in these situations:

1. Sell, even if it means selling out: If it simply isn't financially feasible to maintain the house, it needs to be sold. Yes, the housing market is a dreary place for sellers these days, but there are situations where parties must simply cut their losses. Engage the services of a trusted realtor, accept their suggestions as to listing and selling prices and be willing to lower the price even further. The goal in these situations is to get the house sold as soon as possible, not to realize maximum profit on the investment. Sell at whatever price a buyer is willing to buy (and cross your fingers that the buyer can obtain financing).

2. Separate as much as possible: You still need to live with your spouse during this time, but it is crucial that both of you create as much personal space as possible and respect each other's boundaries. One of you remains in possession of the master bedroom and the other takes over a spare room. Each of you is permitted to lock the door on your new "residence" and neither enters the space of the other. While this may be painfully reminiscent of your college dorm room days, keep in mind the situation is temporary and it's the best you can do under the circumstances.

3. Communicate, as little as possible: Keep your communications limited to matters concerning children, if you have any and/or bills and expenses that need to be paid. Avoid any other topics- divorce and the reasons behind it, what your lawyer said to you today, what your friends/family think of your spouse, etc. If a discussion becomes heated, you both (or one of you if the other is unwilling) need to each go to your own rooms. If communication becomes impossible without strain or shouting, limit your communication to email only.

4. Respect your neighbor: If you were living with a roommate, you would be courteous and not play music too loud, be unnecessarily noisy in the early morning or late evening hours or question the activities of your roommate. The same rules apply to the present situation. Do not use this situation as an opportunity to goad your spouse into an argument or you will only make the situation worse.

The above is clearly not a good situation, but one that is becoming more common in the current housing market. In pending divorce cases, I have incorporated the above groundrules into agreed orders which was signed by a judge, which forces the parties to comply under penalty of sanctions. Sometimes it even works, although no one is particularly happy about it. It has, in some instances though, encouraged parties to aggressively market their homes for sale.

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Find Out About Keeping the House During a Divorce

When comes to keeping the house, you have to be realistic. Can you really buy them out, can you afford the payments on the house? You need to be completely realistic. You should also think about who will get the children. If you don't want the children to be with you completely, then don't expect to get the house, because the house usually goes where the children are. You shouldn't ask for custody because of the house. Children are not leverage in a case.

They should not be used so you can get whatever it is that you want. One of the biggest reasons why someone will sell the house during the divorce is because neither one of them can make the payments alone. If one of you can, you can take advantage and buy out their half or you can sell for your advantage again. If you want the house, ask the other to move out right away. This way you will have a better chance of getting the house, as well as, the other party losing the house since they forfeited over to you. The one who moves out will be seen as very generous person who just gave the other the house. Ask for a removal. This will allow you to have temporary absence, but remember they can also file for a temporary stay in the house, after the other has left. You should have a plan if you lose the house.

You're not guaranteed the house; so don't act like you are. But if you run your business from the house or within the house, you will get the house most likely just because it would be an inconvenience that is unnecessary. It will prove that you have more value towards the home.

You want to make sure that you never leave the house or it will leave your possession. You will want to consult your lawyer on other tips on how to keep the house. You will want to make sure that you don't suffer financially just to keep the home. Some of the things that you will need to keep in mind is who will fix the things around the house. Do you have the ability to pay for the repairs or can you do them yourself?

If you do get possession of the home, you should change the locks. This way you can't have them entering the premise without your permission. You will want to change the locks as soon as they move out. This way they can't harm you during the proceedings. You may even want to install an alarm so that you know that no one can open a window and get in. If you feel that your life is in danger, don't fight over the house. However, as a mother or parent you have the right to protect your children and want to stay in the house. When it comes to disputes that include property, you have to ask yourself if it is worth it and why you are pushing the issue.

To get the house, you will want to think about going through mediation. You may find that you will have to give up more things for the house, but you have to wage the house against the other possessions. Usually, if you get the house then you get practically nothing else. You may get child support and alimony, but you don't get any of the other possessions in most cases.

When it comes to divorce proceedings, make sure that you don't have anything to hide. If you do, have a backup plan so that you can clear your name and the courts may be more likely to give you the house. You will want to think about the children as well when it comes to the custody of the house.

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We should not expect the house and a divorce - The impact of the housing crisis on separation

The unfortunately a familiar scenario. A married couple can barely pay the mortgage and expenses each month with their joint income. Divorce is on the horizon. The parties intend to split, but can not afford to live apart. What should I do?

Unfortunately, there is no panacea. Neither judges nor lawyers can sell a house, or make more money than what is available. We can only know what is there. Mortgage and costs must be paid. And if there is not enoughMoney, about those who have separated, to continue to live together. Needless to say, this is much easier said than done. The burdens that have caused the parties are split now it holds under the same roof. The tension is escalating the already reached an all time high, and there is no immediate out.

But that does not mean that the situation must be in a scene from "The Rose-escalating war." Here are a few basic rules that can and should be followed in these situations:

1. Sell, even if this means a sellout, if it is simply not financially possible to maintain the house must be sold there. Yes, the housing market is a sad place for sellers these days, but there are situations in which parties must simply their losses. The services of a trusted broker to accept their proposals for listing and sales prices and be prepared to lower the price further. The goal in these situations is to get> House sold as soon as possible, not to know the maximum profit from the investment. Sale at any price a buyer is willing to buy press (and fingers crossed that the buyer can obtain financing).

2. Separate as much as possible: you have to live with your spouse during this time, but it is important that you both so much personal freedom as possible and mutually respect the borders created. One of them remains in the possession of the master bedroom and the other assumes a replacement --Room. Each of you is allowed to the door to your new "residence" and does not lock into the space of others. While this is painfully reminiscent of your college dorm room day, remember, the situation is temporary and that the best thing you can do under the circumstances.

3. Communicate as little as possible: Keep your communication is limited to matters concerning children, if you do not and / or invoices and expense that must be paid. Avoid any other issues of divorce and theReasons why your lawyer for what you said today, what do your friends / family, your spouse, etc., is when a heated discussion, you both (or one of you if the other person is not willing) to each room on your own . When communication is impossible without exertion or crying, you limit your e-mail message only.

4. Respect your neighbors: When you lived with a roommate, you would not be polite and play, music too loud, unnecessary noise in the early morning orlate evening or question the activities of your roommate. The same rules apply to the current situation. Use this situation as an opportunity to goad your spouse in an argument or you will simply make matters worse.

The above is clearly not a good situation, but one that is increasingly common in the current housing market. In anticipation of divorce cases, I have included in the above ground rules agreed contracts awarded by a judge, was signed by the parties, their strengthcomply under the threat of sanctions. Sometimes it even works, although nobody is particularly happy about it. It has encouraged, in some cases, however, parties aggressively market their homes to sell.

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3 Ways to Begin Healing After a Relationship Break Up or Divorce

Breaking up can be a very traumatic event and almost always leads to great changes in people's lives. Moving on after a relationship break up can be very difficult. You may feel stuck for a very long time and it may even be difficult to go about normal activities.

Move Healing a broken heart, and after a separation or divorce is something that time, but take your time is not the only factor in the healing process can. There are some other things you can do to recoverand move on with your life.

If you have recently suffered a break, and it was hard for you, here 3 ways to heal heal and get back your life ...

1. Treat yourself to grieve you the space and time to drown the relationship, without being in your grief. If there is a relationship separation or divorce, it is often tempting to things you do sorry, keep it alive. You might be tempted to music was something special for you and your partner to play with places to visit, where youthey went together as a couple, and to constantly think and worry about your ex. If you find it, and it is causing you pain, stop doing it. If you need to, you set yourself time to cry every day, not hold you firmly in the past.

2. Begin, "what is" rather than focusing on "what might" or "what can be." One of the greatest ways to keep people from moving on after a break up or divorce is that they are to live in a fantasy world, what was the relationshipor could have been. If you really want to heal from this relationship, take a look at what is realistic and was in fact true is accepted on this relationship and this truth, instead of conjuring up stories, which is devoid of any basis of truth.

3. Take some time to find out what you learned from this relationship and what you want in a new relationship before you start again. Your friends can asks advice relationship that you start out as soon as possible. Before doing so, it isimportant, the time and space to heal your heart and discover what you want in your life. While it is normal to live in the past after a break up to seek what you want will help you heal.

We recommend that you start your healing process today, and start making life how you want it.

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7 Steps To Take Action Once you divorce

The decision for divorce is only the first step. Once you have resolved the decision, your marriage (divorce), there are some steps you should take action.

If you and the soon-to-be-ex is taking the DIY route to divorce, you should:

Cancel all joint credit cards - open new individual accounts. Be absolutely sure that all joint accounts are actually closed. Make sure you both have a clear agreement about who is paying the bill, while theDivorce is pending. If the balance is great, also think about who is responsible for the balance board.


Cancel Direct Deposit, if you unlink IT and related bank accounts, when online. You want to change your direct deposit so that he no longer unique to your new bank account. Since some time, change takes direct deposit, you must keep the joint account be opened for a few months. They are closing the joint bank account, then unlink it now so neitherShe tries to do something malicious later.


Split ratio in the joint accounts and open up to each individual separate accounts. The general rule for allocating property in Florida is 50/50, so go ahead and split the money, you are now in the bank. Put the money into an individual account that you opened.


Change all passwords - email, websites ATM - and do not use the same old! It is time to stop, the recycling of old passwords.


Monitor your credit report to be that the accounts be closed. You are responsible for joint accounts, so you be sure they are to be closed. If they are not closed, can any of you be attempted later, the bill, claiming that the card is lost to use. If your on an old joint account, which was not closed, is done, the other spouse a dispute with credit reporting and bill collectors.


Start a folder to collect monthly bills in one place - this makes the FinancialAffidavit easier. The financial affidavit is a lengthy process. Do something that makes it easier to track how much everything costs each month. Remember, some bills are only quarterly, half yearly or even annually. You must of course also included.


Decide how the budget bills are considered during the divorce process. Make sure your agreement is clear and write it down for you to sign both.

You can use this online estimator for child support.Although not exact, it gives you an idea of what the child will accept payments so you can make a budget for your new life.

Once you've made the decision to divorce, you should take steps to handle on your finances as a first step in the divorce.

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